What, I'm middle aged?

You'd think that I would know this.  After all all my kids are grown and I have two grandchildren.
My life style keeps me young and active, but the truth is I'm middle aged!

What scares me is that I'm closer to retirement and not sure I'll be ready when that day comes.

This past weekend my husband and I went to see the movie "Hope Springs" first indication your middle aged is that no one under age 45 was in the theater.  I place it in my top 20 all time best chick flicks.

What made it so great is that it brought on some deep discussions within my own marriage.  One specific discussion came from the question in the movie "What is your best sexual memory you have, even if it was bad".   In my mind I have a top 10 list, but when it came down to picking the best, it was that I could remember everything about that night in detail and what led up to it being so good.

Funny thing is my #1 didn't even make my husbands list.  We agreed on 4 of 10 and my husbands #1 was my #5.

I'm ok that we don't agree on this topic.  What surprised me is that for my hubby there is a theme that makes it more memorable.  Most of his list was made up from times we role played and sexy outfits were involved or times we had sex in public places.  My list had a couple of these, but the rest leaned more to the intimacy of the act and connection I felt during the experience.

Time seems to be slipping away faster and faster. I think it's time to take a look at another movie topic and get to work on my "Bucket List"

~G